2014.7.30【英译中】10 Things To Stop Caring About If You Want To Be Happier

发表于:2014-07-30 19:31 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

忽视10件事情会让你更加快乐

It’s time to care less. Yep, that’s right. Sometimes we take the world on our shoulders, and instead of making the world a better place, all we end up doing is creating more stress for ourselves. Here are simple tips to ease that heavy mental load and feel more carefree.

现在是不在乎的时间段,对,就让我们这样。有时候我们想用双肩扛起整个世界,而不是让世界在最好的位置上,最终我们做的就是给自己带来了更多的压力。下面是降低沉重的负担,从而变得无忧无虑的简单小技巧

1. What others think

忽视别人的想法

Dance to your own beat. Act dumb. Do whatever you have to but don’t take on board what others think. It’s your life, your decisions and choices. Others love to judge, and why should you care if they do? Only you define yourself, so let them be amused if it makes them happy. When you care too much about that others will say, you live your life for them and not yourself.

按照自己的节拍舞蹈,装聋作哑。做自己必须要做的事情,而不要关注别人的想法。这是自己的人生,代表的是个人的决定和机会。别人喜欢去评判,但是你何必去关心别人要做的事情呢?仅仅是定义你自己,如果这样可以让他们高兴地话,那就让他们高兴吧。当你更多的去关心别人想说什么的时候,你就是在为别人生活而不是为了自己。

 

2. Past mistakes

忽视过去的错误

We all make mistakes and mess up in life. That’s just how life goes. Don’t be hard on yourself, though. Accept that everyone gets it wrong sometimes; its part of the human condition. You really are allowed to cut yourself some slack. Learn to forgive yourself more often.

我们每个人都会犯错误,而且可能让我们的生活更加的混乱。这些恰恰就是生活继续的原因。所以说不要苛求自己,接受每个人偶尔的犯错,这是人类的存在的一部分。你应该真的让你自己放松下来,更多的时候要学会忘记自己的错误

3. Failure

忽视失败

The big “F” word that everyone fears. It doesn’t have to be a scary concept, though. Ultimately, it depends on your attitude to failure. If you see failure as not being perfect, you’re going to be permanently miserable. A more realistic idea of failure is giving up. If you haven’t given up, you haven’t failed. See failure as a learning curve, a trial and error process. See failure as your friend – it’s no big deal unless you allow it to be.

这个大大“F”让很多人感到恐惧,虽然这并不是一个可怕的概念,但是却决定了你对待失败的态度。如果你把失败看成是不够完美,那你将会陷入持续的悲伤中。对失败更现实的想法就是放弃。如果你不放弃,那么你已经失败了。将失败看成学习的曲线,一场预赛和错误的过程。将失败看成你的朋友——失败没什么大不了的,除非你把它看的太严重。

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