2014.8.2【英译中】10 Things To Stop Caring About If You Want To Be Happier

发表于:2014-08-02 06:11 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

7. Regrets

忽视遗憾

Regret is a part of life. The past cannot be undone, so it pays to look at what you have done in life philosophically. Did you learn something from it? If you learned never to do it again or to try a different approach, then you’ve ended up with a positive result. Accept what has gone before, make allowances for human error and move on.

遗憾是生命的一部分。过去已经无法改变,但是值得去看看在生活的哲学上你已经做了些什么。你从中学到了什么?如果你学到了再不会重复错误或者尝试了截然不同的方法,最终获得积极结果。那就接受已经发生的事实,为自己的错误埋单然后继续前行。

8. Rejection

忽视拒绝

Many of us are so afraid of rejection that we stay in our comfort zones and never risk true intimacy. Wear your heart on your sleeve and risk being vulnerable. The more you hide out of fear, the greater the fear will grow. Show yourself that you can express your feelings and live with the consequences. You will conquer fear of rejection in this way and feel more carefree. Even if the outcome is not as expected, you will soon realize that it wasn’t as bad as you anticipated and that you can deal with it. Be a little more thick skinned, be brave and see life as an adventure.

我们大多数人会害怕被拒绝,是因为我们习惯待在舒适区,从不想和真正的风险有亲密接触。给自己的心穿上套子,因为其风险是脆弱的。当你想越想隐藏恐惧,恐惧就会变得迅速的成长。展现你自己的能力,你可以表达感情和承担生活的结果。这样你就可以征服恐惧和害怕被拒绝,从而感觉更加的无忧无虑。即使结局不是我们预期的,你也会很快的发现,结果并不是比我们预期的坏,我们完全有能力去处理。只要再多点儿厚脸皮,勇敢起来,将生命当做一个冒险的过程。

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