2014.05.21【英译中】纵然心碎,常怀感恩——感谢上次失恋的10个理由

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发表于:2014-05-21 13:29 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

10 Reasons to Be Thankful for Your Last Heartbreak

纵然心碎,常怀感恩——感谢上次失恋的10个理由

 

1. The worst of it is over. The fighting, the negotiating, the returning of the oversized T-shirts, the Facebook status update change that everyone and their mom commented on with “:(. Youre done with all of that now. 


1、长夜将尽,黎明已至。

你们不再争吵打闹,不再拉拉扯扯,你还了他的大号衬衫,也不再发令人难过的脸书状态。这些烦心事都已成往事。


2. Youre not dragging it out for that extra We should break up but were too lazy/codependent so well let it go until it becomes totally unbearable and also I use your HBO GO password year. 
Or maybe you did. But you’re not letting it go on for another one, which is 365 days less of being stuck in a bad relationship. 


2.当断则断,免受其乱。
你没有拖上整整一年保持着那种“我们早该分手但我们太懒或者太过相互依赖,所以我们要拖到无法忍受那一刻,而且我还用了你的HBO网络电视密码的关系,或者你已经这样了一年,那你应该庆幸你没有在这段已死的爱情里再蹉跎一年。

3. You can do all the things that your ex-partner hated. 
He didn’t like when you used apple cider vinegar in your shampoo? And let the cat sleep in bed? And did Jillian Michaels DVDs in the living room really loudly while he was trying to work in the bedroom? Now you can do all those things. At once, even! 


3、做你所想,再无顾虑。
他不喜欢你在洗发水里加苹果醋?他不让你的爱猫上床?他在卧室工作时候嫌你在客厅放朱利安·迈克的DVD太吵?现在你不用管他了。他一滚你就自由了!

4. Youll learn to appreciate having time for yourself again. 
Whether you want to use that time to do yoga, get a facial, or do some work, your time is all yours again. You’re allowed to be selfish now. 


4、更多时间,善待自己。
你可以练瑜伽,做面膜,学习工作,做什么都行,所有时间又重新归你支配。现在你可以为自己生活。

5. You have more time for your friends. 
Let’s be honest, once you get serious, your significant other takes up at least 50 percent of your time. Think about all the female friends youve lost to boyfriends. 


5、色既不重,自不轻友。

承认吧,真正的恋爱中,另一半至少会花掉你一半的时间。想想那些你因为交男友而疏远了的闺蜜吧。

6. By ending the relationship, you can put things in more perspective and see how much youve changed and grown. 
A huge reason that really serious long-term relationships don’t work out is because both people are changing usually getting closer to the mature, grown-up human beings theyll eventually be. So drifting apart is sad, but actually indicates positive change in both of you as individuals. 

 

6、成长改变,独省己身

很多爱情长跑之所以结束,一个重要原因是双方都在变。人们渐渐变作成熟的大人,然后定型。劳燕分飞虽痛,却表明你们都成长为独立的个体。

7. Youre free to find someone who fits with the person you are now.
#Upgrade. You need your Significant Other 2.0. 


7、于今之己,再觅佳偶
男友也要更新换代。现在你需要的是一个2.0版的另一半。

8. You learned how to function during a time of extreme sadness and stress. 
Unlike college breakups, when you could ostensibly go into semi-catatonic shut-in phase and spend 48 hours in your dorm room under the covers with Law & Order SVU and a roll of raw cookie dough, you’re a grown-up now, and you need to go to work. Even though you just got hit by the Feelings Truck. And figuring out how to drag your emotionally wounded ass into the shower and then into the office will bolster your capacity to live through future calamities day-to-day. 


8、痛而不辍,哀而不伤
和大学中分手后不同的是,那时你可以如癫似狂,闭门不出,整整两天把自己埋在饼干堆里看美剧,但现在你已经是成年人了,你需要工作,即使你刚遭受了失恋的打击。所以你要洗个澡,走出情伤,去工作。这种能力会让你更加坚强,以面对未来日子里可能的灾难。

9. You can have sex with that cute guy friend youve always kind of wanted to have sex with and maybe have almost had sex with a few times before. 
Find out if the sexual tension and buildup was worth it! At the very least, it’ll be a fun mystery to finally solve! Kind of a Nancy Drew and the Curious Case of Long-Awaited Deep Dicking. 

 

9. 桃花不拒,露水不涸

 你可以和肖想已久或者浅尝辄止的小帅哥们一起出去嗨了,感受一下过去压抑的那些悸动,想想压抑它们是否值得。至少,你可以像《少女侦探》一样,查一下久违的桃花谜案,那会是一件刺激的事情


10.You can relearn how to do nice things just for yourself. When you were with your partner, maybe they were the one who pushed you to do the dishes, cook nice dinners, and suggested you go on a vacation together. But now you can learn how to treat yourself or make your home a nicer place to live in, just because you respect yourself, not because you have an obligation as someone’s girlfriend. 


10、为了自己,重塑生活

和男友在一起的时候,也许是他让你做饭洗碗,也许是他拖你去度假。现在你可以好好款待自己,美美地装饰自己的小窝,因为现在你只需要考虑自己的喜好,而不用考虑作为某人女友的责任。




@heyjude1943   @merridie

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