2014.05.28【英译中】教害羞女孩怎样找人约会

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SHY GIRL'S DATING TIPS

害羞女孩约会技巧


It’s not always easy to ask someone out on a date. In fact, the process can seem downright daunting for some of us. Rather than hope the guy you like picks up on enough hints to ask you out, or resign yourself to a date-free fall, follow our tips for asking someone out with ease.

找人约会并不是一件容易的事。事实上,对我们其中一些人来说,这个过程甚至令人畏缩。不是寄希望于你心仪的男孩给你种种暗示,最终邀你约会;也不是委屈自己完全跟约会绝缘,而是按照我们的技巧,找人轻轻松松约会。

 

Practice

练习

It might sound silly, but the best way to feel ready to tackle asking a guy out is to know what you want to say and how you want to say it. That’s where practice comes in. Ask one of your BFFs to be your coach and then just simply try out a few different ways to approach someone you like. Loosen up and don’t worry about feeling embarrassed. Getting the jitters out with a good friend will make the real deal much easier. Plus your friend can help give you pointers on things like eye contact, body language and how direct you’re being.

这个建议听起来好像有点傻,但是做好找人约会的准备,最好的方法就是想清楚你想表达什么,以及怎样表达。这部分就需要练习了。找一个好朋友来当你的教练,就如何接近你心仪的那个人,试验一些不同的办法。放轻松,不要担心会感觉尴尬。跟好朋友一起把紧张的情绪发泄出来,会让真实的约会变轻松。外加你的朋友还可以在一些方面给你暗示,比如眼神交流,身体语言,告诉你你的表现怎样 (这句话我可能理解上有点问题,请指教)。而且你的朋友可以在某些方面给你些意见,比如眼神交流,肢体语言,还有怎么直截了当的表达自己。

 

Don’t overthink it

不要想太多

It’s just one date -- not the end of the world. Being nervous is totally fine (and totally normal), but don’t overthink what you’re about to do. The less pressure you put on yourself, the smoother things will go, so let go of your apprehensions and relax. Speculating about what he’s going to say and whether or not you’ll be able to go through with it will just make you more nervous and uncomfortable.

这只不过是一场约会——又不是世界末日。感觉紧张也没关系(这很正常),但是对你将要做的事不要思考太多。你给自己的压力越小,事情的进展就会越顺利,所以释放你的恐惧,放轻松。推测约会对象会说些什么,以及考虑你能不能搞定这场约会只会让你感觉更紧张,更不舒服。

 

Be direct

要直截了当

Once you’re ready to approach the guy you like, the best course of action is to be direct. Rather than beating around the bush or making awkward conversation, simply ask him what he’s doing tomorrow or next week or whether he wants to check out a band at the bar you both like. Remember what you practiced and project confidence. The more direct you are (while still smiling and being friendly), the easier it will be to ask someone out.

一旦你准备接近你心仪的那个人,最好的做法就是直截了当。不要拐弯抹角,也不要说些奇奇怪怪的话,直接问他明天的安排或者下周的安排,或者问他有没有兴趣去你俩都喜欢的酒吧欣赏乐队演出。记住你曾做过的那些练习,保持自信。你越直接(同时要保持微笑,表现友好),成功找到人约会就越容易。

 

Have fun with it

享受这个过程

What’s the worst that can happen? Sure, he could say no, but consider it more practice and have fun no matter what happens. If you go into the situation with a positive attitude, you’re much more likely to come across as laid-back and confident -- attributes that are very likely to get you a date.

最坏能坏到哪儿去?当然,他可能拒绝你,那就把这次经历当作是练习,无论发生了什么事都去享受这个过程。如果你采取更积极的态度处理这样的情境,极可能会给人留下从容,自信的印象——你的这些特质将很有可能帮你约会成功。



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