2014.05.29【英译中】正能量集锦:6种想法让自信魅力四射1

发表于:2014-05-29 21:48 [只看楼主] [划词开启]
No one doubts the value of confidence. In fact, research shows people often prefer confidence over actual expertise.

没有人会质疑自信的价值。事实上,研究显示,相比实际技能,人们更看重自信。

G. Richard Shell teaches at the Wharton School and his book Springboard: Launching Your Personal Search for Success, out in paperback this week, has a great chapter on how to be more confident.

理查·谢尔现任教于沃顿商学院,他著作的《跳板:启动你的个人成功搜索》,这本书的平装版在这个星期出来,书中有很好的一个章节是关于怎样变的更自信。

Here’s what you need to know.

下面这些就是你需要知道的。

1. Surround Yourself With People Who Believe in You

1.和相信你的人在一起

I’ve posted a lot about how the power of context can improve behavior. And people are a part of that.

我发表了一些环境的力量是怎样提升人行为的论述。以及人,也是环境中的一部分。

When you’re told you’re good by someone you respect, you believe it. Partially it’s a placebo effect. But that’s perfectly fine.

当你被你所尊重的一个人告知你很棒时,你会相信这句话,部分的来说这是一种安慰效应。但他的效果很好。

This creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you believe you can do it, you work harder. When others believe in you, they push you harder.

这就造就了一个自我实现的预言。当你相信你自己可以的时候,你会更努力。当其他人相信你的时候,他们就会推动着你去更加努力。

Together, these things make you do better — so you have a reason to be confident. And then next time, confidence comes easier.

所有的事情使你更加优秀,所以你有原因变得更自信。那么下次,自信会来的更容易。

Via Springboard: Launching Your Personal Search for Success:

以下来自于《跳板:启动你的个人成功搜索》:

The phenomenon of transferred expectations, also called a “self-fulfilling prophecy,” occurs for a combination of two reasons. The person holding the expectation treats the other person differently, giving him or her more challenging work to do. This leads to more learning. At the same time, the person receiving the suggestion accepts it as an accurate assessment of his or her ability, and that in turn increases the level of effort the person gives.

期望传递现象,也被叫做自我实现的预言,这是由于两个原因共同产生的。有期望的人与其他人是不同的,当给他们一个具有挑战性的工作时。这也使他们学的更多。同时,能够接受建议的人会将这作为他们能力的一种精确评估,反过来,这也会使他们更加努力。


The lesson here is plain: you should understand the power of being in a high-performing/ high-expectation social environment versus a low-performing/ low-expectation one. Your social setting can strongly affect what you believe is possible— and that will affect your confidence, the effort you expend, and the results you achieve.

其中的道理很直白:要懂得高表现/高期望的环境与低表现、低期望相比所能赋予的能量。你所处的社交环境会很强烈地影响你的信念—而信念会影响你的自信,你付出的努力,和你获得的成果。

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