2014.06.03【英译中】怎样做才能“不止是朋友”?(上)

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发表于:2014-06-03 18:07 [只看楼主] [划词开启]
How to be seen as more than a friend
怎样做才能“不止是朋友”?(上)

MAKE HIM NOTICE YOU
让他注意到你

We've all been there – when you like a guy who treats you like his little sister or just one of the guys. You're friends with him (he's a great guy after all) but you'd really like to be more than friends. The question is how to stand out and make him see you as more than a part of his posse. We've put together some simple strategies to help you beat the "just friends" fate and get him to notice you.
我们都曾有过这样的经历——你很喜欢他,可他却只把你当作小妹妹或者当成哥们儿。你和他已是朋友关系了(毕竟他人真的很好)但是你真心希望你们之间不止是朋友。问题就是,你要如何脱颖而出(有所突破,让他不只拿你当朋友呢。我们整理了一些策略,帮助你打破“只做朋友”的悲惨命运,让他注意到你!

1 GET HIM ALONE
1. 跟他独处

Whether the guy in question is from your office, someone you know from the gym or a peripheral member of your crew of friends, the first step in being seen as more than just a girl he sometimes hangs out with is to get him alone. Linger after the game and see if he wants to go for a quick drink, see if he can come by your place (if it's nearby) to check on something you think is broken or leaking or get him to help you with your form on one of the weight machines at the gym – the point is to figure out a way to get some one-on-one time with the guy you like. The more little incidences you can engineer that involve just the two of you, the better your chances will be at getting him to see you as someone who's more than just a friend.
无论你心心念念的这个家伙是你公司的同事,还是你在健身房认识的伙伴,或者是你朋友的朋友,想要被他当成愿意出去约会的对象的第一步就是跟他独处想要他不把你当作普通女孩的第一步就是找机会跟他独处。玩完游戏之后磨磨蹭蹭先不着急走,看他是不是有意出去喝一杯,看他是否有意去你家一趟(当然如果你家是在附近)帮忙看看你家有什么东西可能坏掉了,或者有没有漏水,甚至勾他去健身房帮你看看你在重型器械上的练习——所有这些的目的都是为了找到跟他独处的时刻。(这样真的好吗?哈哈哈哈~)营造越多这种只有你们两个人相处的小时刻,你就越有机会让他拿你不止是当普通朋友。

2 FIND A COMMON BOND

2. 建立共同纽带


Do a little asking around among your mutual friends, teammates or co-workers to see what he likes, what he reads, music he listens to and anything else that can give you a leg up when it comes to having a meaningful discussion with Mr. Just Friends. Is he a vegetarian? Tell him about the great BBQ tofu you make. Does he have a dog? Compare iPhone pics of your pooches. Is he well-traveled? Regal him with tales from your last exotic vacation. The more you can find in common, the easier it will be to create a bond that goes beyond where you both work or what group of friends you hang out with.

在你们共同的朋友、队友、或者同事之间做个小调查,看他的爱好是什么,读什么样的书籍,听什么样的音乐,和任何其他能够助你一臂之力的小提示,让你能够跟你的“只做朋友”先生可以进行有意义的探讨。他是吃素吗?如果是,告诉他你会做很棒的烧烤豆腐(这到底是个什么吃的啊)。他养狗吗?如果养狗,给他看你手机上面你家萌死人的小狗的照片。他喜欢四处旅行吗?如果是,跟他分享你上次旅途的奇闻趣事。你找到的共同点越多,就越容易建立共同纽带,而这种纽带会超越你们之间的同事关系或者是一般的朋友关系就越容易建立共同纽带,而这种纽带会使你们的关系超越一般的同事或者盆友


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