2014.8.10【英译中】10 Habits of Really Happy Couples

发表于:2014-08-10 21:00 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

2.Cultivate common interests.

培养共同的兴趣

It’s important to keep your own hobbies when you’re part of a couple, of course, because you want to stay true to yourself and not change your personality. But you and your partner can cultivate common interests without changing who either of you are, and it will make your relationship stronger as a result. I love reading and writing, which are typically solitary hobbies, but my fiancé doesn’t hesitate to grab a book and sit next to me on the couch, or he’ll write a story too, and we can give each other feedback. He loves painting, and I can hardly draw a stick figure, but when he asks me to help him with a painting, I love to try and do my best with bright streaks of color. As a result, we’ve both found that it doesn’t matter what you do together (or in the case of my painting attempts, how well you do it), just that you’re doing enjoyable things together.

作为夫妻中的一方,你要保持自己的个人爱好是很重要的,当然你必须保持真我,不要随意改变个性。但是你和你的另一半要在不改变任何一方的情况下培养共同的兴趣,最后的结果就是你们的关系会变得更加的牢固。我喜爱读书和写作,这些都是独居时的爱好,但是我的未婚夫不习惯抓本书挨着我坐在沙发上,他也不喜欢写故事 ,我们可以给对方相互反馈。他喜爱画画,但是我连个简笔画也不会,但是当他在画画时叫我帮助他,我总是很欢喜的尽我最大的努力用最明亮的色彩。最终结果就是我们都发现在一起就好,做什么没有关系(或者我在进行绘画尝试的时候,你已经做的很好了),我们要做的就是享受在一起的时光。

 

3. Walk hand in hand.

手牵手的散步

My hatred of hand-holding started in elementary school, when you had to hold hands with a buddy so you wouldn’t get lost on a field trip. Since then, I’ve never held hands with anyone and not gotten immediately sweaty palms. It’s one of the worst feelings! With my partner, though, I love holding hands. It makes me feel so happy and connected to him just to hold hands as we walk through the neighborhood, or even around the grocery store. Even if we don’t hold hands, we keep pace and walk side by side. I find that more often than not, my hand either finds his, or I slide my arm around his waist. There’s something really nice about walking perfectly in step with your partner.

我从小学时候就开始讨厌牵手,当我必须去和朋友牵手,否则我就会失去野餐的机会。从那时起,我就没有和任何人牵过手,也没有感受过手心立即出汗的感觉。那可能是非常糟糕的体验!然而我爱上了和我的另一半牵手的感觉。当我们牵手走过邻居门前,或者是杂货店的的时候让我感觉很快乐,同时感觉和他的联系很紧密。甚至我们没有牵手,我们只是肩并肩的保持同步的散步。我发现很多时候,我的手总是不由自主的去寻找他的,然后把我胳膊放进他的臂弯中,没有任何的事情比和我另一半完美的散步更好的了。

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