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方小异 (Isabel) 路人甲
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发表于:2010-06-27 09:29 [只看楼主] [划词开启]
Dying Father Finds 'New Dads' for His Young Daughters 绝症父亲为女儿们找到“新爸爸” Other men in Feiler's Council of Dads include the man who helped Feither get published back when he was an unknown writer. Literary agent and friend David Black says that the role Feiler asked him to assume was a natural fit. "I work to help people's dreams come true. That's in part what he, the Bruces asked of me as a member of the Council." “父亲委员会”中的其他成员包括曾帮助当时并不出名的菲勒出书的人。文学经纪人戴维·布莱克,同时也是菲勒的朋友,他说菲勒请自己承担这一角色是自然而然的事:“我的工作就是帮助人们梦想成真,从某种程度上说这正是布鲁斯邀请我加入‘父亲委员会’所要做的。” Black, who is a father himself, adds that the Council of Dads has turned out to be more than just a community of support for Feiler's daughters. It's also been about creating a community of men who can support each other. "Men are not given in our society enough of opportunity to be drawn together in something where their love and support is the foundation. That's not what men do. All right, men play sports together, men wacth balls together, men go out to have dinner together, men drink together, they compete. This is not about competition. This allows the nurturing element of men, of these men, of the 6 of us, to be at the forefront of this relationship." 本身作为一名父亲,布莱克补充说“父亲委员会”已经不仅仅是一个扶助菲勒女儿们成长的团体,它还为能够互相支持鼓励的男性们提供了一个社团。“在我们的社会,男人们并没有多少机会聚在一起,为他们的爱与支持团结起来。这不是男人们要做的事。的确,男人们聚在一起运动,聚在一起看球,聚在一起外出吃饭、喝酒,他们比赛竞争。但‘父亲委员会’并不是竞赛,它让男人们,让我们六个人内心的养育之情成为维系我们关系的主导力量。” Bruce Feiler points out that when dads support other dads, they can share their experience, their strengths and their wisdom. And Feiler says it's the children who benefit the most. "Being a dad is often very lonely. Somebodies married say they want to be a good dad, but maybe they didn't have good dad role models. And one of the things I feel is I am no longer alone that the Council of Dads is in every room with me and making every decision with me." 布鲁斯·菲勒指出,当父亲们帮助支持其他父亲的时候,他们可以分享对方的的经验、力量和智慧。菲勒说孩子们才是最大的受益者:“有些男人也想做一个好父亲,但他们缺乏好父亲的榜样。我现在觉得我不是一个人,因为‘父亲委员会’时时刻刻与我在一起,同我一起做每一个决定。”
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