【早读社】如何做真实的自己 (1/2)14.09.18

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发表于:2014-09-18 07:20 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

My grandparents believed you were either honest or you weren't. There was no in between. They had a simple motto hanging on their living-room wall:"Life is like a field of newly fallen snow, where I choose to walk every step will show." They didn't have to talk about it. They demonstrated the motto by the way they lived. They understood instinctively that integrity means having a personal standard of morality and ethics that does not sell out to selfishness and that is not relative to the situation at hand. Integrity is an inner standard for judging your behavior. Unfortunately, integrity is in short supply today and getting scarcer. But it is the real bottom line in every area of society. And it is something we must demand of ourselves. A good test for this value is to look at what I call the Integrity Trial,which consists of three key principles: Stand firmly for your convictions in the face of personal pressure.When you know you're right, you can't back down. Always give others credit that is rightfully theirs. Don't be afraid of those who might have a better idea or who might even be smarter than you are. Be honest and open about who you really are.
我的祖父母认为你要么是实诚的或者是不诚实的,并没有中间选择。他们的卧室的墙上挂着简单的座右铭“生活就像一片全新的刚被雪覆盖的场地,我选择在哪里走,每一步都将被显示。”他们没有必要谈论它 — — 因为他们正用自己的生活的方式表明这一座右铭。 他们本能地理解诚实意味着有了个人标准的道德与伦理,。诚信是评判你的行为的内在准则。不幸的是,现今诚信十分缺失,并且越来越匮乏。但是诚实在社会的各个领域都是真正的底线。也是我们必须要求自己做到的。 检验这一价值观的好就是我所谓的完整性试验,其中包括三个主要原则: 1、 坚定你的信念立场,尽管面对着压力。当你知道自己是对的时候,你不能放弃坚持而做出让步。 2、相信他人,给予他人以信任。 不要惧怕相对于你来说有更好想法的那些人或者那些可能比你更聪明的人。 3、诚实并展现真实的你。

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