2014.12.05【英译中】初恋教会你的五件事(481字)

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Conflict can be healthy

吵吵更健康

No relationship will be smooth sailing from start to finish. No matter how much you care about someone, or how much you have in common, there will be times when you disagree. Sacrifice, compromise, and communication will soon take the place of quarreling or arguing.

没有任何一段恋情从开始到结束都很平顺。无论你多在乎一个人,或者你们有多少共同点,总有出现分歧的时候。结束争吵需要牺牲、妥协和交流。

Your body issues aren’t really issues

你外貌的问题不是真正的问题

All of us have hang-ups about our appearance, but being with your first love will make you view yourself in a different way. In fact, significant others will often adore the qualities you think are flaws. Most importantly, your first love will surely teach you to see your body in a more positive way, regardless of the road your relationship takes.

所有人都对自己的外貌有所不满,但和你的初恋在一起时你会对自己有不同的认识。事实上,你认为自己有缺陷的品质往往是你重要的人所欣赏的。最重要的是,无论你们感情之路是怎样的,你的初恋都将教会你用更积极的眼光看待自己。

Selflessness is a virtue

无私是一种美德

If you’re like most of us, the biggest concerns in life are things that affect you. While a self-centered approach is often valuable in career and education endeavors. Learning to share your time and space long-term will be absolutely crucial to a successful love life in the future. First loves challenge our selfishness.

如果你和多数人一样,生命中最关心的事情是影响自己的事情。以个人为中心的途径通常是有价值的事业和教育。学会长期的分享你的时间和空间绝对是将来拥有一段成功的爱情生活的重要途径。初恋挑战了我们的自私。

You’re too hard on yourself

你太为难自己了

Many of us hold what we think are high standards for ourselves, but they are in fact impossible standards. if you would be soft on a friend in the same situation, there’s no need to be hard on yourself. If your relationship’s a healthy one, your first love will undoubtedly challenge this habit.

许多人都坚持自己所想的是为自己设定的高标准,而其实是不可能实现的标准。如果你在同样的情况下可以对朋友很温柔,那就不必对自己太严苛。如果你们的交往关系很健康,你的初恋无疑将挑战这个习惯。

Relationships need love too

恋情也需要爱的维护

Maintaining a relationship is much different than casually dating or starting a relationship. To truly care for someone else takes effort and longevity. Learning how to care for someone over time, and how to make the right decisions for your situation, is a critical lesson we take from our first love.

维持一段感情与随意的约会或开始一段恋情大有不同。去真正的关心另外一个人需要努力和坚持。学习如何长久地关心一个人,做出正确的决定,是我们从初恋那里学到的关键的一课。

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