【早读社】幸福的道理(4/4)14.12.06

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发表于:2014-12-06 08:19 [只看楼主] [划词开启]

Disappointments and tragedies in life will come and go, but happiness never leaves you. The human's capacity to be resilient to trials is unfathomable. We can lose our jobs, but be grateful for our spouses. We can lose our homes to nature, but be thankful to be alive. Happiness is a perception of each individual. We are instinctively compelled to find fault in our lives. By human nature, we begin our "fault-finding" mission the moment we're capable of free-thinking. It is then that we lose sense of self-worth and the bigger picture of vitality altogether. Stuck in the patterns of the happiness paradox, we simply cannot find where our happiness has gone. It's not a matter of bargaining, it's not an issue of money or fame. Instead, happiness is what you resolve to accept. If we live through optimistic hope, if we dare to dream, if we empower ourselves to fully live, then we have regained our sense of happiness. There is no in between. There is no other replacement. We only have one physical life to live. We have no choice but to make the most of it.
失望和悲伤在生命中交替轮回,但幸福从不会舍你而去。人类对困难的适应能力无可限量。我们可以失去工作,但会为拥有爱人而感恩不已;我们可以流离失所,但会为活着而心存感激。 幸福是个人的一种感知。我们本能地受限于外界,找寻着生活的瑕疵,出于人的天性,我们从有能力自由思考的那刻起,就开始对生活吹毛求疵。也就在那时,我们失去了对自我价值的认知,也失去了生命的活力,陷于幸福的矛盾中,找不到幸福的方向。 幸福是你决定去接受的东西,没有任何商量的余地,它于金钱或名誉毫无瓜葛。只要我们活在乐观希望之中,敢于大胆梦想,活得简单纯粹,那么,我们就会重新拥有幸福的感觉。那种感觉并非悬于幸于不幸之间的真空地带,也无任何替代品。我们只能活一次——除了好好活着,我们别无选择。

P.S. 这是幸福系列的最后一篇了,看到这几天大家的留言,在讨论幸福到底是啥,突然想起一句话,不知道真假,不过很暖心,来分享一下。

四叶草的花语是幸运,那你知道三叶草的花语是什么吗?是幸福。也许在你满世界寻找幸运的时候,只要低下头,就会发现你早已置身幸福之中。

我想这就是幸福吧。

最后编辑于:2014-12-06 08:35
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